Why Beautiful Women Always End Up Single.
03:39So, yesterday my friends and I had a heated up debate conversation on
this topic. Many are the times when men leave totally beautiful women
and go for another woman who if asked is not even halfway as good
looking, leaving the beautiful woman ‘strung along’
This is nothing new to me what so ever.
Someone once told me that beautiful women are the loneliest beings on
earth. For some unknown reason, the attractive woman is never really
married or taken. Sadly, she is always playing the role of the ‘back up
plan’ or ‘the other woman’.
Many men tend not to have extremely attractive women for wives or
girlfriends but will always stare, wink, or approach them when their
better halves are not around. The sad part is that at the end of the
day, the men would not leave their significant others for the beautiful
woman.
- Assumptions/false conclusions- when a man looks or spots a beautiful woman at a party, he will automatically expect the beautiful woman to be taken which is usually far from the truth.
- Insecurity- sometimes, men do not go for extremely beautiful women because they feel that they are not ready to spend their whole life chasing her around and making sure that no other guy is after her. This is a form of insecurity.
- Low expectations- some men would look at a beautiful woman and not expect a pretty girl to know how to cook.
- Stereotypes- A stereotypic man would expect a beautiful woman to be a bad cook because she has most likely been spoilt by society doing things for her just because of how she looks.
- Narcissism- most beautiful women suffer from this and are therefore unable to maintain long term relationships because of their self indulgent ways. It’s all about her and what she does. Therefore, most men would rather go for a lesser pretty woman than a narcissist.
- Negatively ambitious attitude- being ambitious is okay but the negative kind of ambition is wrong. The beautiful woman feels she has all the time in the world to snag that rich, handsome guy and is not willing to settle for anything less.
- Raising the bar so high- she wants perfection, she wants the perfect man and therefore if a man does not look his occupation, she does not bother giving him the time of day. She battles with feeling of discontent and forgets that nobody’s perfect.
39 comments
great piece Cece... i agree with you... most guys will not approach a beautiful chic coz they assume she's taken ama she's high maintenance
ReplyDelete@Allan Samo thankyou. i'm glad you agree.
ReplyDeleteA very interesting read. True especially on insecurity.
ReplyDelete@kakiige's thankyou
ReplyDeletemmmmh so True . At some point they are seen as grate liabilities.
ReplyDeletethat's right @paul olaka
ReplyDeleteLoving this piece ... share
ReplyDeletegood one..al nolonger assume that the hot lady seated at the corner alone is taken
ReplyDelete@orio yvonne thankyou @SEIF WECHULI i like that.
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ReplyDeleteCece Nyaga this is the reality n thank you for saying it!!!!
ReplyDelete@orio yvonne seen it. guys are sharing it. thankyou for sharing too :D @Dennis K. Mutonga anytime and thankyou.
ReplyDeletecome to think of it, its actually true.....thnx for sharing, i needed this...time to change my attitude
ReplyDeleteanytime :)
Deleteanytime :)
DeleteReality is HARSH, Reality is ugly. Why 'buy' one at the 'price' of 2??? (Honestly Who in 'their' RATIONAL-less thinking does that?... ) A car must have a "sparewheel" just incase any 'one' of the others in the 'wheel' system fails. Foolish Risks prove costly!!!
DeleteHuman nature is influenced as commonly known by the environment, definitely a woman who is severely beauty is affected by what is going on around, the admiring, complimentful and panting men...etc., few of those women can realize that there is a difference between their connections to those men who superficially admire their beauty on the one side, and those men who have interest in them going far above beauty in the sense of a person and charachter, those women, who are aware not to drift complitely into a wallflower Doll, will surely find equal men,who love the person and enjoy the beauty in the same time, the problem you can meet "ves versa", a man, whos handsome, sportive and successful !
DeleteTrue Cece....Go for the beautiful one....In many cases, the beautiful ones are the lonely ones as opposed to be the taken ones. The average ones who croon alongside the beauty are in most instances taken or have many men on their "cases" because of their "come and get me" approachable demeanor. If men "manned up enuff" they could save these lonely beauties.
ReplyDeleteLOCKER NO.
so where do you fall in miss Nyaga?
ReplyDeleteits said men marry the ugly and share the beautiful
ReplyDeleteSo Cece are you single
ReplyDeleteSorry but i need to disagree with you. I have dated all across the board. From "BEAUTIFUL" women to women people ask me what i was thinking about when i asked them out. I guess that makes me a bit of a relationship whore, but when i meet someone i like and i wanna date them. Regardless of how hot or not people think she is.
ReplyDeleteThe problem with MOST "BEAUTIFUL" women is that they walk into relationships half in and half out. When there is the is any trouble in the relationship they start shuffling in their shoes instead of staying true and focused on the course. The problem is that they know they are beautiful and they know that every guy wants them. So they discard meaningful relationships and settle for easy ones.
What i mean by this, is that when they have a choice between someone who will challenge them and not accept their issues they start getting frustrated. I totally understand it though, when you have gone through life getting away with murder you start to wonder why someone would ask you to start changing yourself. By the time MOST beautiful girls realize this they are old and single and all the men their age or older are taken by those understanding and reasonable "LESS" beautiful women. Then they get angry and have heated debates over their glasses of wine about how men are stupid and how they are a waste of time.
Don't believe me? Well when most "BEAUTIFUL" women were younger, high school or primary, they had boyfriends that they dated for years, almost through out their entire school lives. They were happy and content because they didn't know how "BEAUTIFUL" they were, then they kept getting told how "BEAUTIFUL" they were, over and over until they recognized their own beauty. After this they broke up for one reason or another and they were released into the wild with a belief that they were superior to other girls/women. This is where the problem begins.
Your post was well written and i acknowledge your frustrations and your points. Some of your points are absolutely true. However if you would read your post again you will see that you have made the same problem most "BEAUTIFUL" women make. You have failed to recognise that there may also be a problem with you, that maybe some of it may be your fault. That my dear is where you have fallen short.
However i wish you all the best and i pray that your prince charming walks into your life, on valiant steed and with pearly white teeth. We all deserve to be happy and to share this short life of ours with a significant other.
Sincerely
Patrick N. Gikandi
I totally agree with your point.
DeleteShe wasn't writing about her personal life.You seem to be attacking her.
Delete:) (Y)
ReplyDeleteguys shun beautiful women for fear of rejection and the perceived extra effort required to woo them. they settle for less attractive girls who are easier-catches but on the downside have low self esteem and hence will always be seeking ways to invalidate that, even if it means cheating
ReplyDeleteEh bro, i think you've only been on the extremes :-)
DeleteSeeing you are very beautiful yourself, I assume you are single
ReplyDeletemy posts do not necessarily reflect on my personal life... and thank you everyone for your contributions. at the end of the day, beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder :)
ReplyDeleteOnce a man finds a beautiful flower, the next step is to find the real person behind it..... this is so true!
ReplyDeleteit's true @cece , beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder :)
ReplyDelete"Can someone kindly define beautiful?"anyone?
ReplyDeleteGood stuff. So True
ReplyDeleteI beg to differ. But to each his own.
ReplyDeleteI beg to differ. But to each his own.
ReplyDeleteThis is true, most beautiful women end up as single mothers too.
ReplyDeleteThe article has some truth to it,however,it also reflects on how human beings can be short sighted.I believe love has nothing to do with looks."beauty" is specific to perception or the eyes if you like.
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